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Schönborn: Church must listen to couples in a way it hasn’t before

By Sarah Mac Donald - 12 July, 2017

Cardinal Christoph Schönborn. Pic courtesy: iCatholic.ie

The Church must show mercy in the context of the new and more complex narrative around family in Ireland today, Pope Francis’ close adviser Cardinal Christoph Schönborn has said.

The Austrian prelate has been one of the Pope’s greatest supporters of the Apostolic Exhortation, Amoris Laetitia.

Speaking ahead of his visit to Limerick this week to address the ‘Let’s Talk Family: Let’s Be Family’ conference at Mary Immaculate College on Thursday, Cardinal Schönborn said that reinvigorating family is the great mission of the Church today.

The conference is the first major conference taking place in the Irish Church as part of the build-up to the World Meeting of Families in August 2018.

The Church, the Austrian cardinal said, must listen to couples in all relationships in a way it hasn’t before.

The 72-year-old Archbishop of Vienna’s own parents divorced.

He was chosen by Pope Francis to present Amoris Laetitia following the two Synods on the Family in 2014 and 2015.

He will give two separate addresses in Limerick, one specifically on Amoris Laetitia at Thursday’s conference and the other a public lecture in the evening on ‘The Parish: Family of Families’ .

“I’m really looking forward to coming to Ireland for this conference. Ireland is synonymous with family, a country that traditionally has had family at its core,” Cardinal Schönborn told Limerick Diocese.

“But like most western nations, in particular, family in Ireland has complexities that it didn’t have heretofore. Second unions, divorce, same-sex unions; these are all part of a new narrative around the family in Ireland. So there is a lot of change and the Church must show mercy in the context of that change; it must be willing to meet families where they are today.”

“Ultimately, and this is certainly the case with Ireland, for all the crises in the institution of marriage, as Amoris Laetitia states, the desire to marry and form a family remains vibrant, especially among young people.”

Amoris Laetitia, he said, means the ‘joy of love’ and is an invitation that excludes no one, without exception.

“While it does not herald doctrinal change, it most definitely encourages greater discernment on the part of the Church when it comes to sensitivities around family today. That means we, as ministers, must listen like perhaps we haven’t before and listen to all. To people in both regular and ‘so-called’ irregular relationships.

“Society has been founded on marriage and the weakening of family will pose a threat to individuals, to community values and, as Amoris Laetitia states, the moral progress of cities and countries. Reinvigorating family is perhaps our great mission today. The Church’s way is the way of Jesus and that is a way of mercy and reinstatement.”

Thursday’s conference is organised by MIC’s Institute for Pastoral Studies and according to theologian and speaker Jessie Rogers, having Cardinal Schönborn present will be an opportunity to get the deepest insight yet in Ireland into the Pope’s new and more merciful direction on the family.

“I am, as a theologian, a wife and a mother really excited when I see things coming along that help people to match theory and theology with real lived life. I am very encouraged by the conversation that is coming from the hierarchy. Particularly because it’s a conversation that has been informed by real genuine listening,” she said.

“One of the things that often crops up in what Pope Francis writes and says is the notion that the real is greater and more important than the ideal. I think that the conversation now is about how faith is lived in real families and real situations.

“I think that this conference, not just the conference but the whole build-up toward the World Meeting of Families, has huge potential, huge possibilities. It would have been wonderful, of course, if we had Pope Francis but I would say that with the Cardinal we are probably as close as we can get. What we will really be hearing is the mind and the heart of Pope Francis on this whole issue.”

The event opens at 2pm and all elements will take place at the Tara Building, Mary Immaculate College, Limerick.

To book your place, go to www.irishinstituteforpastoralstudies.com, call Deirdre on 061 204507 or email [email protected]. The full programme costs €20 to attend, with a €10 fee for the public lecture at 7pm.

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